Love Turns To Friendship
I don’t know if somewhere between in your married life or even in just a relationship you felt no love anymore.
Is this an episode we really have to pass through or does this mean it’s over?
I am kinda loosing all the excitements I felt when we were just dating, on early months of our relationship or even after pregnancy. Maybe somewhow, getting through all the trials on our marriage, I kinda loose the trust.
I worried a lot, as in paranoid. Well he is kinda okey now, but it is really hard for me to be what I used to.
I used to smile a lot, I used to sing a lot, dance a lot. Free spirited, jolly, loving person. Now I am busy being worried on something I don’t know. Well that’s anxiety, even with a lot of fern-C everyday, I am still worried. LOL!
There were days that yes I want a separation but just a thought of it makes me shiver. Half of my brain or my heart too maybe, wants to be free but the other half wants to stay.
I know deep in my heart I love him but on to my brain it tells me I’ll be happier without him.
Sorry, I am really confused on this. I want him out but I want not too. Help?
I hope this is really just an episode I hope we surpass.
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June 15th, 2008 at 4:21 am
Oh mama joyce, if that is true, you and rhyantot should talk, there’s no problem that cannot be solved with open communication. Or maybe you both need space, nakakapagod din madalas yung lagi kayong magkasama diba? go out with your friends at dapat mayroon kang ME time like one day na wala kang ibang iisipin kundi sarili mo lang.
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admin reply on June 15, 2008 5:41 am:
7 years na ko alng ME day, aways kabuntot ang junakiz t asawa
pangit din pala yung ganto, burned out n aketch.
sabi ko nga mgbakasyon siya sa kanila e ayaw naman kainiz..
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June 18th, 2008 at 3:03 am
di po ako si joe de mango hehe pero think ko need nyo space
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admin reply on June 18, 2008 8:27 am:
tingin ko nga yun kaso nga lagi buntot e, para naman may maiinlab pa sa akin
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June 24th, 2008 at 6:39 am
Hi po…Momy joyce! Well…i think both of you should have a sincere talk, if both of you want to keep the marriage. trials will always be there but its unfair if only one person wants it to work.I experienced this, and even if I wanted it to work, still he wants out…so I let him go even if it crashed my world. But that doesn’t stop me to get to know my self again,a bubbly person….
Don’t lose your self in marriage, have a time to get to know your self again!!!
Be strong and be brave!!!!
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admin reply on July 6, 2008 11:53 am:
i am learning to do some things on my own na, i become too dependednt on him kasi, one reason siguro why i am always afraid na pano na if ever mawala siya.
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July 6th, 2008 at 2:02 am
Marriage goes through many stages. It is not always romantic. There will be times when you doubt what you feel. But it is all part of a natural process. Let respect and care remain and all will be fine. It would help if the physical part stay active as well
Someone said to many along, long time ago that marriage is really about cherish-ing the good and leaving out the bad. Now, again that is subjective - what if the bad far outweighs the good, what then?
Keep the fire of love burning….
Cheers!
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admin reply on July 6, 2008 11:54 am:
yung sa bed, to be honest takot me gawin eversince mangyari yung away layas bati naman, kasi parang takot me mabuntis na, gusto ko pa naman sana magka baby boy
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July 26th, 2008 at 1:14 am
Hi!
Although I don’t know the ‘degree’ of your problem, I can relate to what you are saying. My wife also told me then na parang nagbago na ako, that I am no longer the same guy I used to be when we were not yet married. Of course I said no, I didn’t. But at the back of my mind, parang napapansin ko rin na hindi na ako kasing-sweet at thoughtful nung dati. And all this because then, wala talaga kayong iintindihin kundi kayong dalawa lang, you can pour all your affection to each other. Iba na kapag married na kayo at may anak… bigger responsibilities at parang naiiba yung priorities. But it doesn’t mean that love is lost.
Kaya siguro nagkasakit wife ko, para maibalik ko yung dating attention sa kanya. Napahaba na comment ko, pasensya na. I do hope that this is just an episode you’re going through. I hope everything will be fine with you soon.
By the way, congratulations on winning a painting on the ECard contest.
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admin reply on August 13, 2008 3:28 am:
thanks Roy.
But some marriages managed their sweetness to be the same, but really with all the problems that comes with the marriage and hirap na talagang maging sweet
but still xempre nakakamiss din ang maging sweet 
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August 3rd, 2008 at 7:57 am
Try to open your photo albums together and see.
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admin reply on August 13, 2008 3:29 am:
im sure nakakaiyak yan
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August 11th, 2008 at 4:28 am
Yes, a marriage has seasons. After nearly 15 years, I’m extremely happy about my decision. Take time to really think things over. You’ll sometimes feel unsure. No need to fret. Figure out how you can SPICE things up again. Sort of like how you do your meals in the kitchen. There’s a thousand ways to make a rice dish. I know because I LOVE brown rice.
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admin reply on August 13, 2008 3:31 am:
Is there any cook book for marriage. I think we both need to spice it all up
I am always contemplating on this that is why I am still holding on 
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August 14th, 2008 at 4:59 pm
me parang i want to stay single forever hehehe. marriage life is full of responsibilities.
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admin reply on August 19, 2008 2:08 am:
hehehe di naman
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