Father, Playmate, Disrespect?
I am worried about my daughter and my husband, they are too close to each other that sometimes my daughter will be some kinda disrespectful specially when heard by the others who does not know that it is just normal to them. They really get along well but sometimes my husband get pissed off too when my daughter treat her like a playmate and not as a dad. My daughter would hit, kick or shout at his father and tell words which is not suited for any person. When asked where did she got it, she will plainly say from my classmates.
I spoke to my husband that maybe it is time to put a front to her that hey I am your father. My husband always tells me that why our daughter is not doing that to me. Honestly, since she was a baby I was never the type that pleases her all the time. I am more of the disciplinarian here at home but also I made her sure that she can tell me anything she wants and that is what has been happening all this years. I just told him that you should also discipline our daughter. She should know when is play and when you are already serious so that she will respect you more as a father and will love you more as a playmate.
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July 17th, 2008 at 2:49 pm
we are in the same boat for my youngest daughter ( i have three girls). she treats her father like a next-door neighbor and can go overboard at times. although there are times when it is over the limit the dad gets pissed off but then my girl can’t seem to figure out why the dad is suddenly “asar” because she does not know the boundaries. hopefully, it changes over time. but the decision lies solely on the adult actually. same with you i am the disciplinarian of the house – they can’t sweet-talk me! lol.
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July 18th, 2008 at 12:25 am
i hope it will change, mahirap ng masanay sila sa ganon
July 18th, 2008 at 3:21 am
hi sis! were in the same situation. my husband almost always plays with my daughter and since she’s the only child, he tends to spoil her… He cant resist her when she asks for something but he’s complaining how come our daughter doesn’t follow him when he asks her to do something..
Like he’d ask her to brush her teeth or stop watching tv, she’d just turn and smile and goes on doing her thing and doesnt even mind if dad is already so impatient.
I told him to be balanced and be firm and to learn how to say no.. I hope it’ll get better in time.
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July 18th, 2008 at 4:30 am
dads really are having a hard time when it comes to disciplining their children, either they become too protective or too lenient or too tight or too loose hehe lucky for us moms we can do all by just balancing our emotions.
July 18th, 2008 at 5:11 am
It also happened to me. I’m close to my two daughters. Sometimes they become disrespectful to me at may pagkakataon na sinisigawan ako. Pero pinapalo ko sila sa puwet at pinagsasabihan. Ipinapaliwanag sa kanila na hindi maganda ang kanilang inaasal.
I’m hoping na magbabago rin ang lahat paglaki nila. Responsabilidad kong hubugin sila na may magandang asal.
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July 18th, 2008 at 8:59 am
yeah hehe mga daughters kasi mejo spoiled sa mga daddy’s kaya siguro ganon